Those who follow me on Twitter, either through Facebook, the sidebar here, or on Twitter proper, will already know that I’ve recently moved house. I’ve received a number of emails and messages expressing everything from shock and confusion, to utter disbelief about this latest change in my life. To understand such reactions you have to know that I lived at my previous address for just over 11 years. I would lose contact with people, only to reacquaint with them years later, and be able to respond to their catch up questions with ‘Yes, still at
It isn’t that I was content living at Cricket Street, that wasn’t the source of the surprise expressed; anyone who has read this blog for even a short period of time, or been unfortunate enough to listen to me complain about living amidst football crowds and alcohol fuelled shenanigans ranging from drinking and peeing in the green zone bordering my yard, to assaults, murders and rapes, knows I was not especially happy with my living arrangements. But over the years, I just accepted that I had a good deal with the rent, especially for living by myself, and in such a central location. I generally thought I couldn’t complain too loudly, in any official capacity at least, because I had chosen extreme inner-city living.
So there I was, wallowing in a torpor of squalor and disrepair, when I checked my email one afternoon and saw that someone was seeking a person to share with. I was assured that I’d have my own bathroom, and the asking price was on par with my then current accommodations. Here, finally, was what I could be looking for. Everyone I’d vaguely approached about the possibility of sharing more salubrious lodgings was either committed to living by themselves, on the house-sitting circuit, or caring for elderly parents. I wondered if it would be possible for me to live with someone again after thirteen years of not having to account to anyone for the state of the kitchen sink? And what about the prospect of living with a complete stranger? I had never done this, even when I first left home.
I made the decision to move in on the spot, and I suppose it’s this, after many years of inertia, while accepting all sorts of infringements upon my comfort and well-being, that has surprised so many, including myself. I sometimes wondered if I would live there putting up with crap, literally and figuratively, forever.
I’m sitting on my own private patio and looking at the garden.
I pulled up some stray weeds this morning, so it looks particularly nice as the light fades.
I can hear the sounds of children playing; the bossy tones of a five year old swimming with a besotted and pliable adult.
Later, I’ll go upstairs and make myself a salad for dinner in the big galley kitchen with stainless steel benches and a dishwasher. I won’t be eating much more, because I invited a friend over for afternoon tea—something I almost never did at Cricket Street since I was too embarrassed—and she bought some hommus dip with fancy crackers and some lovely Pink Ribbon foundation cup cakes, which were added to the slices of chocolate and carrot cake that had I bought from a cake shop located around the corner, past a small college campus, a league’s club, a creative glass guild, a bowls club, and across a small creek bed with only a very little bit of water in it.
I did laugh when I saw I was going from one football hub to another, but really, from this spot, you’d never know it was there, and the league’s club tends to attract a very different crowd from the pubs and hotels near Suncorp Stadium.
And later, when my flat mate returns from her long, daily walk we’ll talk about her afternoon at work in the library, and we’ll probably watch the news, watched over by various art works that she's accumulated. She’ll tell me how much she can’t bear Kevin Rudd because he’s so mannered, to say nothing of his tardiness in asserting the worth of the union movement and Howard and Costello’s indebtedness to the economic initiatives of the Hawke-Keating years.
7 comments:
Hi Kirsty
I'm really delighted to hear that this has been such a successful move. It makes a huge difference having a comfy, relaxing, well-equipped spot to live in.
As some of my housesitting experiences have reminded me (something I already knew from bitter experience!), one can't just live anywhere. There is a difference between: I think I can survive living here and I actually enjoy living here.
Congratulations, Kirsty - sounds delightful, may you have many happy times.
"extreme inner-city living" sounds like a sport - one has to get out eventually :-)
It sounds fabulous, Kirsty. I'm glad you've found something that makes you happy. And I really envy the private patio and garden! It would make for a wonderful writing atmosphere. Do you have wireless broadband as well?
That would be the (pink) icing on the (cup) cake!
Yay! Sounds great. It's nice to have someone to chat to about nothing sometimes - a flatmate can mean you can be social without having to actually make the effort to go out and be social, and can make a real difference to the old self esteem/mood at times, in my experience.
Patio garden looks just lovely.
Sounds like an excellent move.
Thanks everyone, for your comments. Yes, it does feel better all round. Even, adjusting to the foibles of another person (and they, me).
Oanh, I think the inner city living was an extreme sport, and a contact one at that!
Mark, I have some pink icing and a cup cake, in separate hands, so to speak. I don't have a wireless card, I'm using a 20 metre ethernet cable. But I'm working on getting the icing on the cake. Hello ebay. Now all I have to do is get up the nerve to bid.
sounds lovely! i moved a few months back and am immensely glad i did, though i have no garden...
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